174+ Topics To Talk About With Your Girlfriend

174+ Topics To Talk About With Your Girlfriend

174+ Topics To Talk About With Your Girlfriend

174+ Topics To Talk About With Your Girlfriend


Things to talk about with your girlfriend will keep a conversation going with her and strengthen your relationship.

Things To Talk About With Your Girlfriend

What’s your favorite memory of us together?

Take minute, close your eyes and imagine what your perfect life would look like. Describe it in as much detail as possible.


Have we ever had a heart-to-heart talk before?

What would an average day in your perfect life look like? Do you have just one ideal life or can you think of more than one?

How was today for you work-wise?

What do you think the role of a woman in a relationship should be? How about the role of a man?

What was your favorite part about today?

Why did you choose this color to paint your nails?

What’s your favorite season and why?

What are the three most annoying things a boyfriend can do? How about the three best things?

What’s your favorite perfume?

Why did you choose to wear your hair this way?

Do you collect anything? If so, why?

What was the most adventurous / crazy thing you have done in the past month? What is the most adventurous / crazy thing you have ever done?

What’s your happiest memory?

Do you prefer being outdoors or indoors?

What was the best part of your week?

What was your first thought this morning?

How can I make your day better?

What three objects that you own do you value most?

Is there anything you’ve wanted to do for a while, but need help with?

How have you been feeling lately?

Is there something coming up that you’re nervous for?

What would you do if a close friend started saying mean things about you?

What’s stressed you out lately?

Is there anything that would help you relax?

How are your family/friends?

What are your three favorite movies and three favorite TV shows? How about your three least favorite movies / TV shows?

Have you done anything for yourself lately?

What is your idea of a perfect Saturday night?

What’s a story you’ve always wanted to tell, but never got a chance to?

What’s one thing your friends think is fun that you don’t?

Do you find you pronounce any words differently than other people?

What’s a song you like from a genre or band you don’t like?

Is there something you could cut out of your life with little effort that would save you tons of money?

What’s something you like to do that’s underrated?

Has anything weird happened to you lately?

Are you known for anything special in your hometown/friend group?

What did you not realize about yourself until somebody else told you about it?

What’s your go-to party story? (if you don’t already know it)

If you could win a lifetime supply of anything, what would it be?

What’s your go-to joke lately?

What’s your favorite hobby?

What’s an urban legend about where you’re from?

What do you have a strong opinion on that is unimportant in the grand scheme of things?

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If actors could summon an army of all the characters they’ve played, who would win in a war of actors?

Have you ever gotten petty revenge on somebody? What did you do?

What’s your favorite “make a rule” in drinking games?

What trend do you think will never go out of style?

What’s your pet peeve?

Would you rather be the damsel in distress or the hero to save the day?

If you found $10,000 on the ground tomorrow, what would you do with it?

What dating advice would you give to somebody about to enter their first relationship?

Has a book made you cry? What was it?

How do you want people to remember you?

Are you happy?

What’s the best way for you to learn new things?

Could you be in a long distance relationship?

If you had one wish, what would it be?

What’s your passion?

What do you know that you aren’t supposed to know?

What’s a good relationship tip that sounds like a bad tip?

What do you need to vent about?

What causes you to look down on someone?

What would a sitcom about your life be called?

What are some unwritten rules in your family?

What’s the most surprising thing you’ve learned recently?

What would your ideal life look like?

What’s your idea of succeeding?

What’s the saddest movie you’ve ever seen?

What would you like your last meal to be?

Where is the best place to go to meet awesome people?

What’s the best thing you own?

What popular shows or movies have you not seen?

What’s the worst downward spiral you’ve ever witnessed?

What is the most terrifying thing you can imagine?

What would be the worst flavor of ice cream?

What scene from a movie had a dramatic impact on you as a child but probably wouldn’t faze you now?

Would you get into a relationship with yourself? Assuming that “other you” is a gender you are attracted to.

What really should be common knowledge but for some reason isn’t?

What 30 seconds would you erase from your life if you could?

What salad dressing probably doesn’t exist but would be amazing if it did?

What mistakes in your life have you learned the biggest lessons from?

What strange food combinations do you enjoy and which do you hate?

What are some things you could never wrap your head around?

What piece of clothing do you always get a lot of comments on every time you wear it?

What are some of the most annoying things that happen on social media?

What are some things you are below average at and some things you are above average at?

Where was your favorite place to play outside of your house when you were a child?

What’s your favorite book or movie?

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Would you rather swim with sharks or jellyfish?

Have you ever gotten detention in school?

What’s your favorite animal and why?

If a genie granted us three wishes, what would they be?

Have you ever cried in public before?

Have you ever gone skiing or snowboarding?

Have you ever done a backflip or frontflip?

Have you ever driven a car off the road?

Have you ever been in a fight?

What’s your favorite foreign film?

What’s the worst non-illegal habit a person can have?

What do you think about when you are lying in bed unable to sleep?

What horror stories do you have from your job?

If you were tasked with creating a brand new, wildly entertaining sport, what sport would you create?

What food do you crave most?

What’s the best way to spend a rainy afternoon?

How good are you at keeping plants alive?

What’s the worst part of your average day?

What’s the funniest lie you’ve heard someone tell?

If we started a band together, what would you want us to be called?

What world record do you think you could set?

If you wrote erotic novels, what would your pseudonym be?

Do you have a phone voice or a puppy/baby voice?

What’s the latest you’ve ever stayed in your pajamas in the day?

If you had a warning label, what would it say?

What’s the first thing you do when you have the house all to yourself?

If you could cause one minor inconvenience to the person you hate the most, what would it be?

What is the weirdest fact you know?

What’s your favorite curse word?

What’s the most ridiculous reason someone has gotten mad at you for?

What childhood movie was ruined after you watched it again when you were older?

What’s your favorite euphemism?

What are some things you feel compelled to do?

If you were a master reverse pickpocket (putpocket?), what would you put into their pockets?

If you learned that your country was going to cut off all access to the internet at 12 am tonight, what would you spend your time/bandwidth downloading?

What does a day in the life of a couple with a super healthy relationship look like?

What’s your favorite thing to do when the power goes out?

What slang or trend makes you feel old?

Who do you think has it all figured out?

If you had your own butler, what would you make him do?

How long do you think you could stare into my eyes without laughing?

Which animal would be the most useless pet in your opinion?

When you wake up in the morning, what’s your first thought?

If you had to wear one outfit for the rest of your life, what would it be?

What’s the most borderline offensive word you’ve used in a public conversation?

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What two things should NEVER go together?

Do you have any childhood stories that embarrass you now?

Do you have any weird friends?

What body part do you think best defines your personality?

What’s something that was way better than you thought it would be?

How often do you dance?

When are you most comfortable?

What are some things you’ve seen that you wish you could unsee?

How good are you at keeping secrets?

What’s something you’ve been wanting to get off your chest for a while?

How are you really?

What’s the most important thing you learned from your parents?

What’s the most embarrassing clothing malfunction you’ve had?

When was the last time you went to an amusement park or fair?

What book has had the biggest impact on you?

What was the most thoughtful gift you ever received?

What would be the perfect pet?

What are some clever insults you’ve heard?

What’s something that many people find unattractive in a person, but you really like?

What’s the best topping/ice cream combination?

If you could become a master in one skill, what skill would you choose?

How hard do you work to improve yourself or your life?

What do you look forward to?

If you could ask one question about your future, what question would you ask?

What would your dream home look like?

What are some of the most important things in your life right now?

Are you struggling with anything lately?

Is there anything bothering you that you want to talk about?

C’mon, what’s really bothering you? (If she says “nothing”)

Did I do anything recently that hurt your feelings?

You seem stressed. Is there something you need to talk about?

If something was wrong between us, would you tell me?

How was your day at work today?

Have you been happy with life lately?

What do you wish you could change about yourself?

What do you geek out about?

Hammock, bean bag chair, or regular chair? Why?

How artistic are you?

What do you wish you had started a long time ago?